What happened to True Love?

What happened to True Love?

So He likes her, she likes him, also they both know this but wait; they don’t want to be in a relationship. Yes they don’t want to be in a relationship or at least in a long term relationship that leads to anything like marriage.
You must be thinking that they really don’t love each other it’s just that they want time pass relationship (by the way which has become a norm in my generation). But this is also not the case here. They Love but they can’t Love, this is something complex.

I’ve met many people stuck in this type of situation; either they completely don’t allow themselves to fall in love or if they fall by some chance or means they will discuss this first and foremost that they know it’s not going to work, they are not going to marry, So they both take a note of it and walk together in a calculated manner, which is not a love in which you give away what all you have it is more like a partnership or bond.

Yes, so what happened to true love and all that long term relationship and why?

I don’t know what happened to true love but at least after talking to my friends, colleagues and people, I get to know the reason why? So my generation’s difficulty is

Parents and The drama involved in Love Marriage.

Side Note: We know by default that no matter how good the boy or girl is, if it’s Love it’s a BIG NO.

So my generation is so good and respectful that we don’t want to elope because we respect our parents too much and thinking about the entire thing that will happen to them is that we do not consider in any case. This is the good part.
Now the bad part is that we don’t want to take a stand also for our love, we don’t want to convince all, we don’t want to sacrifice; we don’t want to work hard, we don’t want to face outrage nothing. We don’t want to do anything, go through all drama, teaching preaching and endless list.

Finally we think it’s better to convince our self for being with a strange person than convincing parents for our love which takes a hell lot of energy. And that is why WE STOP FALLING IN LOVE.

PS: This is my opinion, everyone has their own so chill and tell me yours, I’ll be happy to listen.
PPS: tell me if you think this is somewhat true but first “Be True to yourself”.


Till the last breath…

After a long time say 8 months or so I read this novel and I Must say it’s too good and too Durjoy with till the last breathtouching..and will surely bring tears to your eyes in fact I found myself reading the same line over and over again to relish its feel and get drown in it.

Till the Last Breath, the book was about two young people, a girl suffering from ALS, and guy whose systems are shutting down after years of drug abuse; the novel charts the last few months of their lives. it opened at No.3 on the Hindustan Times Bestseller list.

The first half of the book is a bit slow and  I feel it a little boring too but the end makes you all your time involved reasonable. The story is predictable and you can easily guess the tragedy take place at the end but this doesn’t end your exuberance at any point as the detail with which it is explained the moments, the environment, the feel is awesome and that will bind you till the end as soon as you past half the book. this one I like most whatever I read of Durjoy Datta till and I didn’t read most of him only two other and they are ” Of Course I love You…. and  You were my crush ”

After reading the novel I have a change of heart that is ” It’s not the story; it’s the detail of it ” that makes a book great :).

Happy Reading Guys and the novel is recommended… 🙂

PS: the secret is I cried too 😛

Top ten myths about introverts… :)

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I find it somewhere on Internet and like to share with you all..

Myth #1 – Introverts don’t like to talk.

This is not true. Introverts just don’t talk unless they have something to say. They hate small talk. Get an introvert talking about something they are interested in, and they won’t shut up for days.

Myth #2 – Introverts are shy.

Shyness has nothing to do with being an Introvert. Introverts are not necessarily afraid of people. What they need is a reason to interact. They don’t interact for the sake of interacting. If you want to talk to an Introvert, just start talking. Don’t worry about being polite.

Myth #3 – Introverts are rude.

Introverts often don’t see a reason for beating around the bush with social pleasantries. They want everyone to just be real and honest. Unfortunately, this is not acceptable in most settings, so Introverts can feel a lot of pressure to fit in, which they find exhausting.

Myth #4 – Introverts don’t like people.

On the contrary, Introverts intensely value the few friends they have. They can count their close friends on one hand. If you are lucky enough for an introvert to consider you a friend, you probably have a loyal ally for life. Once you have earned their respect as being a person of substance, you’re in.

Myth #5 – Introverts don’t like to go out in public.

Nonsense. Introverts just don’t like to go out in public FOR AS LONG. They also like to avoid the complications that are involved in public activities. They take in data and experiences very quickly, and as a result, don’t need to be there for long to “get it.” They’re ready to go home, recharge, and process it all. In fact, recharging is absolutely crucial for Introverts.

Myth #6 – Introverts always want to be alone.

Introverts are perfectly comfortable with their own thoughts. They think a lot. They daydream. They like to have problems to work on, puzzles to solve. But they can also get incredibly lonely if they don’t have anyone to share their discoveries with. They crave an authentic and sincere connection with ONE PERSON at a time.

Myth #7 – Introverts are weird.

Introverts are often individualists. They don’t follow the crowd. They’d prefer to be valued for their novel ways of living. They think for themselves and because of that, they often challenge the norm. They don’t make most decisions based on what is popular or trendy.

Myth #8 – Introverts are aloof nerds.

Introverts are people who primarily look inward, paying close attention to their thoughts and emotions. It’s not that they are incapable of paying attention to what is going on around them, it’s just that their inner world is much more stimulating and rewarding to them.

Myth #9 – Introverts don’t know how to relax and have fun.

Introverts typically relax at home or in nature, not in busy public places. Introverts are not thrill seekers and adrenaline junkies. If there is too much talking and noise going on, they shut down. Their brains are too sensitive to the neurotransmitter called Dopamine. Introverts and Extroverts have different dominant neuro-pathways. Just look it up.

Myth #10 – Introverts can fix themselves and become Extroverts.

Introverts cannot “fix themselves” and deserve respect for their natural temperament and contributions to the human race. In fact, one study (Silverman, 1986) showed that the percentage of Introverts increases with IQ.

This list was inspired by the book The Introvert Advantage: How to Thrive in an Extrovert World by Marti Laney.

No pain No gain ;)

Sometimes thinking about THE Pain, I think whether all the pain hurts so much? I mean, Is there any pain exists which are enjoyable and we want them in our life? So I started thinking about it and I realises some of them really are enjoyable and beneficial for us. And we love to live with them and experience them around our life. After all “No Pain NO Gain”Winking smile

clip_image002The Bumps given by your friends on your Birth day Open-mouthed smile. Although your birthday is for one day only, but the ache u got remains there for several.. Don’t you think the Bumps u got on your Birthday is the most memorable birthday of yours? And you laugh still, while remembering it.

clip_image004The Headache you got after talking whole night with your Loved One. Sometime talking to our soul mate/girlfriend/Loved one whole night creates a severe ache in our head then also we don’t stop talking we don’t even let other person know that we are having a painful headache just because we love that person so much that we don’t want to end the Conversation. We just want to be with him/her and “Nothing else matters”.

clip_image006The Period Day of Women. For some it is very painful and for some it is like just any other day. For the pain bearing ladies To make you happy Here are some cool benefits of your period –

Your period can release frustration and anger, It Improves your mood and appearance, Your period can slow the aging process, It lead to more satisfaction in the bedroom.(As this is not the periods dedicated blog for interested one’s Winking smile )

clip_image008The Pain of women while giving birth to her child. While the pain is unbearable for any girl but after giving the birth she is the happiest women in the world. She creates a “New life” and only a girl can do this. Also Acc. to Research Childbirth may be painful but this pain can strengthen a mother’s bond with her baby and prepare her for the demands of motherhood. So be happy dear Party smile

clip_image010My favourite Hickey Secret telling smile. A hickey is mark caused given by your Lover/partner by kissing or sucking of the skin. Although it hurt sometime and get you a burning pain but it’s a visible way to show that you are sexually active. You can say it a stamp of passion. Don’t you want a stamp from your loved one that symbolises that you are of your partner only and proudly flaunt it among your Friends? 😉

Maybe you have some more enjoyable Pain to share With us.. Let us know

The Thing you really can’t control….

Yes, there are the things in this world u really can’t control… Something’s which may happen anytime to u; has no particular age and has no time limits. .The emotion that make u truly Strong, truly weak from soul, mind heart and rest of the body part too (yes especially hormonal one’s). Even the Quote

“Prevention is better than Cure”

proves to be failed in this case. because there is neither prevention available nor cure to this dreadful disease. It’s unbelievable but doctors too are neither interested in finding the Cure as it is somewhere the only reason for the survival and issueless continuation of our Species. And somewhere in life they are also a victim. So u can’t really escape this At some point in life it must enforces in your life and tickle you all over.

Upto this time you’ve guessed it, I think; if not then for the Tube lights. It’s LUST.I mean LOVE  😛 .Believe me its easy to control LUST \m/. So once You’ve tasted the aroma of it no doctor in this world has the ability to recover u from this Strange disease. Yes I said strange coz You love it ,You hate it and You get really confused about it (like me :D) Maybe you’ll feel like You are a Crazy elephant wildly roaming in the city .

Currently I am pursuing a Research on it(Don’t be Serious).But what I think If it is true it is the strongest bond present on Earth(as NASA doesn’t reveal much about the universe so) anyways leave the crap…

Of all ; The most irritating and excruciating one is Unrequited Love (I’m not going to define this, use links 🙂 ) because it builds feel of depression and low self-esteem which force you to “Love to hate Love” Unrequited Love is mostly influenced by Platonic friendship(Suggestion: Beware of it) and like all ”” IT  H-A-P-P-E-N-S “”  :@ and the reason why I am driveling on this for so long is because I know the hurt. The situation is like you can’t leave it, you can’t keep it. In fact you are in a Real Hell…..

So you see nothing is in Control… BTW I would love to hear what’s your call on this-
Someone realizes it before me 😉

“ishq par zor naheeN, hai ye woh aatish ‘GHalib’

        ki  lagaaye  na  lage  aur  bujhaaye  na  bane”